David DeWolf
Catholic tradition sets aside the 40 days prior to Easter as a period of
prayer, penance, and repentance. I typically head into Lent like most
Catholics do, having chosen a couple of sacrifices that will fulfil my
obligations and remind me of the reason for the season.
This year I chose to do something different.
I
applied lessons I’ve learned through my business experience to Lent.
Instead of giving up coffee, dessert, or some other nicety, I challenged
myself to strategically define Lenten sacrifice to ensure that it had a
real impact on my life.
Here are a few tips that may help make your Lent a little more powerful.
Solicit Feedback
In
business, I start every planning effort by listening to others. If it’s
annual planning, I am deliberate about meeting with clients, employees,
and third parties. I want to hear what people say about the business. I
want to have an open mind. It’s silly to build a plan in a vacuum.
In
my spiritual life, it’s important to do the same. Spend time in prayer
asking God to enlighten your mind and give you insights into your life
that you may not have. Talk to your spouse. Do you have a spiritual
director or accountability partner? Talk to them about how you’re doing.
In all cases, be truly open to the feedback you receive.
Analyze the Current State
In
business, I am deliberate about making sense of the feedback I
receive. After being out in the market, I typically sit our leadership
team down together to perform a SWOT analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses,
Opportunities and Threats).
By identifying the current state of
both the business (Strengths and Weaknesses) and the market
(Opportunities and Threats), I am more prepared for the actual planning
exercise. I double down on my strengths, resolve the most glaring and
impactful weaknesses, and look to take advantage of opportunities while
mitigating the risks.
Why doesn’t it make sense to do the same
thing in my personal life? It does! By having my strengths and
weaknesses at the forefront of my mind and knowing both the
opportunities and challenges that I am going to encounter over the next
years, I am able to plan my Lent more strategically to ensure that my
penitential sacrifices actually propel me forward towards the man I want
to be.
Define Success
Before you get tactical, get
strategic. Choose a handful of strengths you want to double down on or
weaknesses you want to improve. In doing so, consider the opportunities
and threats that might have the biggest impact on your life. From these,
define the outcomes you’re looking for and a path for getting there.
What
does success look like? What is the best approach for getting from your
current state to that ultimate outcome? Chart your course.
Perhaps you feel as though it would be beneficial to enhance your prayer life.
What
does that look like? Are you looking to develop a healthy habit of
daily prayer? Perhaps you want to integrate your prayer life more fully
into the everyday aspects of your life. Or maybe you are looking to
deepen the quality of your Mass attendance.
All of these can lead to
an enhanced prayer life, but, you need to define which approach would be
best for you and aligns with your success metrics.
Set the Plan
Tactics
should always fallout from the strategy. Once you define the strategy,
define the tactics. This is where you finally get to the point of
developing the specific actions that you will take. Just as in business,
the purpose is to propel you forward in your strategy, not to do things
for their own sake.
In other words, don’t be afraid to throw out
the old standbys – giving up chocolate is great, if you’re working on
generosity and have chosen self-denial as your strategy. But it might
not help much if you’re working on developing your prayer life.
Be
strategic and think outside of the box. Taking the time to plan your
Lent will lead to a productive Lent rather than a Lent that simply
checks the box.
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